The Right Relationship
Sacred Relationships and How to Build Them
True lovers meet when one has the courage to unveil their soul and the other has the humility to surrender, unveiling theirs also…
read moreThe Gift of The Magi: Love, Selflessness and The Eternal Virgin
With sacrifice, love transcends the physical. In such deep love, divisions dissolve, and two become one…
read moreThe Art of Trusting
a bridge is a woman
a bridge is a man
into an hour, a hand, a day
into self
without trust is time meaningless?…
The Spiritual Secrets of Sexual Energy
In deep love divisions dissolve and two dharmic paths merge, coming into one…
read moreThe Beginner’s Mind, Eroticism + Mysticism
The ancient mystics described eroticism as aliveness, vibracy, vitality and ecstasy. It is a transgressive force negating the “known” to break the boundaries of reality and take us outside of the limitations of life…
read moreOur Sense of Touch + Nurturing Connection
We can live without many things, but we can’t live without touch. When we are not touched we become irritable, sad, and aggressive. Touch is what creates a sense of safety, connection and trust in our lives; touch is soothing and…
read moreThe Brilliancy of Feelings
Hold my hand, and let me take you into the brilliancy of your feelings. Our feelings are our inner compass; our navigation system which guides us through life. Feelings are pure, like water; there are no bad feelings…
read moreHow To Awaken The Sensual Self + A Sensory Ritual for Couples
Sensuality can be defined as the ability to fully enjoy our senses: it is, in a way, the ability to be fully in our body. Being sensual grounds us in our body, and we live in the present moment…
read moreQuantum Entanglement + Telepathic Connections
In quantum theory, entanglement is the term used to describe the way particles can become correlated to predictably interact with each other regardless of being separated by an arbitrary spatial distance…
read morePower and Grace: The Difference is in The Heart
Transformation happens in the hands of grace. The following exercises are just a starting point of reflection for transformation purposes; understanding that all emotions and states of being are purposeful and needed but that we can…
read moreThe Art of Surrender
The need for control is always coupled with deep unconscious desire for surrender; to be witnessed, to be guided, where one can release their vulnerability, and to be led to an experience that transcends boundaries, restrictions – into the mystical, spiritual and the emotionally bonding…
read moreLove, Devotion & What is Purpose
Devotion is not some high-minded, grand, abstract thing. It is often found in an ordinary moment, in an ordinary day; it’s an injured animal on the side of the road, that we take home to care for it. When devotion finds us, it is an absolute, non-negotiable extend of hands, asking us to love wholeheartedly…
read moreWhat True Love Really Is
A love that pays attention is a love that is alive. Volo ut sis. I will that you are. I want you to be. I want every day for you. I want every moment for you. I love your mere existence in my world, in my life, as you are, as it be…
read moreOn The Importance of Delayed Gratification
Pleasure is central to our survival, but as we mature, we need to learn to tolerate the discomfort of delayed gratification, especially if we have a higher purpose or vision; or desire to build a long-lasting relationship based on true intimacy and loyalty…
read moreAuthenticity: How much is it really worth?
So I wonder: How much is authenticity really worth? What price do we pay exactly for living a life of honesty, integrity and freedom of self? Are we willing to walk through life spiritually compromised? Are we willing to choose the courageous higher ground?…
read moreCostly Signaling Theory + Relationship Accountability
The lack of relationship accountability is like a state of stable ambiguity; people give “just enough” not to feel alone but to get the reward of affection, and yet certainly not give “too much” to compromise because of fears and their unwillingness to commit…
read moreSigns of Emotional Immaturity
One of the most important things needed to have a healthy relationship that is fulfilling, intimate and long-lasting, is the ability to deal with the hard times and struggles/conflict. And this requires emotional maturity and self-awareness…
read moreWhy Couples Fight + How to Resolve Relationships Into Peace
In order to have a healthy relationship that is fulfilling, intimate and long-lasting, we need to be able to deal with the hard times and struggles. This requires emotional intelligence, which is based on self-awareness and empathy…
read moreOne Body: Notes on Form, Consciousness + Individuality vs The Collective
Here I am. Girl, reflected in a frame. Frame, with another body inside of it, and it’s almost as if we are both of one body now. But you can see me only if I adjust the lights, just right enough. Perhaps we form at the experience of our own formation. And perhaps shape is our understanding…
read moreThe Love Dance: Feminine + Masculine Energy
Love is the song of alchemy; opposing forces of water and fire, yin and yang, come together, for merging. A beautiful balance unfolds when the he commits his deep consciousness into the she, who deeply commits to fully surrendered love…
read moreThe Dandelion Girl: Love Transcends Time
“The day before yesterday I saw a rabbit, yesterday a deer, and today, you.” Love humbly begins from chance meetings, maturing into something meaningful when carefully nurtured and properly cultivated. Each day Julie sees something beautiful and substantial yet each following day is a deeper layer unfolding, beyond the veil of her eyes…
read moreThe Choice: Love, I Will That I Am
Now is the time to choose love, not fear. We have to hold on, hold close and hold together. We have to align to a higher consciousness and tend to it consistently. We have to build a space of love, safety and connection and hold that space as much as we can; a fortress of trust. Protect it like a sacred heart…
read moreThe Magical Child ~ Showing Our Little Ones How To Make The Ordinary Come Alive
Do not ask your children to strive for extraordinary lives. Help them instead to find the wonder and the marvel of an ordinary life. Show them the joy of tasting tomatoes and apples. Show them the infinite pleasure in the touch of a hand. And make the ordinary come alive for them. The extraordinary will take care of itself…
read moreSoulmates, No-Shows & The Purpose of Relationships
We need to understand that all people are purposeful in our life. When we define and categorize, we ultimately limit ourselves; we rob ourselves of the experience of a connection. I don’t think we should focus on definitions – it is about the experience. We need to learn to honor all of our connections rather than put them in some human-made boxes of definitions…
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