To understand the essence of manifestation, and the power of feminine energy, we must first understand that there are four main levels of bringing something into being into our physical world: making, creating, manifestation, and emanation.
You can also read my article A Woman’s Greatest Power for a deeper understanding of the discussion below.
To make something is our first level; and this is when we take something already created, like a piece wood, and we make it into a table or chair. We are not making something new – the idea of the chair has already existed as the ingredients have too. So we are essentially apprentices in a workshop and learn all about textures and temperatures, while also developing our skills. At this level, we are also hopefully learning patience, perseverance and dedication.
The second level of bringing something into our world is by creating it – we become the vessel, hands, lips and feet, through which something from the higher realms can express itself physically through us. At this level, we take pieces that have already been made, like the piece of wood or a pen, but we are now creating something that hasn’t been made before in that same way. It is art, poetry, stories, paintings, music, jewellery, architecture; and perhaps it is still a chair or a table, but its design is something not done before or the way of making it hasn’t been done before. In its own way it is unique, because we are unique, and we are the ones giving it shape in our unique understanding of it, perception of it, vision of it or emotion of it.
The third level of bringing something into physical matter is manifestation, which is essentially bringing spirit into matter. It isn’t about manifesting cars and shoes, it is about manifesting a deeper love for all of life and others; manifesting more harmony, peace, ways of movement and creating. Manifesting new emotions, new thoughts, new worlds, softer ways of touching and writing and speaking and dancing with life itself, being a walking embodiment of love and devoted purified vessel of inspired creativity. When we become that which we desire, all aligned to it comes to us in its own time and natural ways; and eventually, we become desire itself. Just like the poet becomes the poem, the dancer the dance, and the one kissing and being kissed becomes the kiss itself; and love becomes loving.
Women are natural manifestors, because feminine energy is manifesting energy. Manifestation is essentially being directly connected to the universal energy of love, source or God. With our feminine energy we attract to ourselves continuously, which is why our higher lesson is to actually learn discernment and how to choose among what comes our way – how to say yes and no, and choose wisely. You don’t need to do anything or even have a vision board – because your true power lies in knowing ourselves and then, just letting it come. All you need to do is stay true to you, discern, and keep yourself pure in your inner essence.
The fourth level of bringing something into our world is emanation, and that’s something that enlightened people, such as saints, advanced monks or spiritual masters naturally do. They become the continuous embodiment of higher consciousness; they can walk through a garden and suddenly all flowers bloom, and they can bless a woman in her 90s who will then give birth to a child. These are real things, even though rare of course.
The Power of Feminine Manifestation
We often grow up in forward-driven societies where we are constantly pressured into the do, do, do, go, go, go, make happen, make happen, take action. But these are the masculine spiritual initiation pathways, not the feminine ones, which is one of the reason why so many women get stuck and feel disconnected from their true inner essence. When we go against our inner essence and natural flow, we are no longer in alignment to our natural rhythm and flow of energy, which eventually hurts us and makes us feel disconnected; and when we feel disconnected, not much else will flow in harmony within us nor externally neither.
One simple way of imagining feminine manifestation is by imagining the egg and the sperm. The sperm swims towards the egg, but the egg doesn’t change its position nor runs away; it doesn’t “do” anything. It doesn’t go chasing, it just stays there, witnesses, observes, discerns and decides whether that’s a yes or a no. And it goes through cycles: cycles of plenty, and cycles of nothingness and quietness, all are purposeful.
Even in the quiet times, non-action times, it doesn’t freak out, it doesn’t suddenly stand up and start chasing – it doesn’t change its inner essence. When the sperm start swimming towards it, the egg only opens for one. The right one. It softens its boundaries only for the right one. To the rest it says no, no, no, until the one she chooses shows us and she says yes – and when it’s her yes, she allows it, she permits it, she opens for it.
The strength of a woman is in her ability to say no. A woman’s voice is powerful, her decision is powerful, and when a woman’s voice says no, it carries such deep power from a soul level, that some people can feel so irritated and so angry, they may hurt her, and worse yet, even kill her because of it.
A woman’s power is in her ability to do nothing, because she knows nothing is not actually “nothing”. It is in her ability to say no, and to discern with the wisdom of her heart. Power is something people feel – and when a woman is aligned to herself and inner truth, rooted in her spiritual core, when she knows herself, and flows in her true essence, she embodies this power within her; and this power radiates, illuminates, attracts, creates.
Depending on who other people are and where they are in their own growth and awareness level, they can either get triggered and attack such inner feminine power, or they can open and allow themselves to be softened, empowered, healed and transformed by her power of pure energy. It is the same with love: true love, pure love, is a power that has the ability to heal people.
We see the way of feminine energy in tarot as well: the first feminine card is the High Priestess and then, we move to the Empress. The High Priestess is the knowing, the trust, the intuition, the womb, the moon within which all is conceived to then to be born – it is where the decision begins to bring spirit into matter. She has her legs closed, with an intuitive deep blue robe, and is silent in her higher knowledge; she doesn’t need to prove her worth nor intuitive abilities, she doesn’t need to shout her power. She is in continuous connection with God.
And so, she stays in stillness and in inner power, until the day she chooses to take into herself the seed of the Magician she seeks for her intention, and conceive. The High Priestess is the conception itself. And then in the Empress, we see the births, so now the legs are open; there is perpetual birthing here – birthing of ideas, experiences, emotions, thoughts, ideas. There are many things we birth through life, not just children; we birth new words of emotions, ideas, creativity, ways of speaking, softeness of touch and the way we move through life, we birth inspirations, movements, dance with life itself.
The movement from the High Priestess to the Empress shows us that whatever we have permitted and allowed in our energy will now come into being. This is why discernment matters, and it is our greatest spiritual power. It doesn’t matter if you are intutive; without discernment, and purity of heart, clarity of mind and sincerity in action such as integrity and strong values, nothing else will make sense, and even the spiritual realms you perceive will be tainted, clouded and you will not see clearly whom is whom, and what is what. So essentially, it is about know thyself, first and foremost, almost.
Women are naturally connected into the manifesting frequency because of the way our energy flows, which why we have the ability to birth. When we carry a child in our womb, we don’t actively do something throughout the pregnancy – it just grows within us; and then the baby comes out naturally in its time, i.e. we manifest the baby. We can manifest many other things as well, and we actually constantly do even if we are not necessarily aware or conscious of it.
Many spiritual cultures know these secrets, which is why they know that if there is a woman in the home, if she is happy, the entire family and household will be abundant. In many Hindu households, the belief is that if there is a happy woman in the home, she can manifest luck and abundance for the entire family and household just through her being still and flowing in her natural energy.
They believe that her energy can manifest the frequency and consciousness of the Hindu Goddess of abundance Lakshmi; and if her husband aligns to her and does as she intuits, then he can bring in and manifest through his actions all they desire. This also means: trust a woman’s intuition and trust man’s thoughts, as these are the strengths of their unique energies through which life force flows.
In many other spiritual and religious beliefs, such as Kabbalah, if a man seeks abundance, health and prosperity, he must always give his wife whatever she pleases and take good care of her. By doing this, he is nurturing his own connection to God, as well as nurturing the deep wells of abundance that she holds within herself. When a man is not treating women well, eventually he will not be well on various levels, including physical and otherwise.
In many Indigenous tribes too, every day the men would spend some time taking care of the chores and children, so that the women can have their free and peaceful time when they can just do whatever they want or do nothing at all – and just sit in prayer or meditation, and devote to their spiritual practice.
They knew that if a woman is well, the entire tribe will be well, as her energy is a manifesting one. You can also do your own research and look up the places of our world where there is most abundance. You’ll see that where the women are happier and taken care of by society, these places face less suffering; while the places where there is poverty and ailments, woman have long been mistreated and abused.
Women are naturally aligned to the manifesting frequency. What this means for society overall is that whatever women allow, it persists, and whatever they don’t, cannot.
The feminine is the keeper of all secrets and mystical wisdom, but with power comes responsibility – a woman needs to know herself. If she doesn’t know herself, she may not be able to allow what needs to be allowed, and may not be able to set boundaries and discern, and she may not be able to guide others in their true higher spiritual paths neither.
This is why in the ancient mystery schools, the first and most important thing all priestesses had to learn, and spend many years learning, was know thyself and know the earth.
Only after years of these teachings, after the woman purifies her inner vessel, knows herself and knows the wisdom and cycles of the earth, she is able to be initiated into the higher knowledge. It is then that she learns how to manifest in the highest manifestation possible, because she understands how to discern, how to master her energy, how to navigate her inner emotional and spiritual wildlands, and how to purify her energy of which she can pull in anything, including a soul to be born without physical conception.
The problem in today’s world is that many people who talk about manifestation or teach about it are essentially skipping steps and manifesting their deeper unconscious fears and unhealed emotional wounds. I’ll tell you straight up: there is nothing to teach about it, so don’t waste money on false light or false preachings. We are living in a world where people seek to make money off of others’s vulnerabilities; it’s commodification of vulnerability. Likes, followers, falseness, the blind leading the blind. Likes and followers and people with loud voices and big personas on big stages don’t equal wisdom; stay discerning.
When a woman is aligned to herself, her natural rhythm, when she knows herself, she just naturally manifests and attracts what she needs when she needs it, when the time is right anyway. So if you truly want to invest in yourself and live a more fulfilled and healthier life, invest in self knowledge and inner development, not in pseudo money making machines about manifestation. If you like astrology, human design, spirituality, psychology, whatever you like as tools and guidance and support for inner development and spiritual growth, let that be your way.
It is said that the higher purpose of a woman is to connect man to God and lead him to his destiny and true self; and the higher purpose of man is to protect woman and give her the stability she needs to flow freely in her energy. A woman can discern the beautiful qualities of a man, and then inspire him to embody these – is he a teacher, a guide, a protector, a builder, an artist, a poet, an architect. She can raise her boys to be honorable, courageous, truthful and fair, and emotionally intelligent. She can inspire and guide all the men in her life, her brothers, her father, her husband, her sons, all she meets and walks by, and this is beautiful and purposeful.
But when a woman doesn’t know herself, she can no longer be connected to herself nor see the wisdom through which she can help and guide others including other women, men and children beside her, nor can she guide her own self neither. She can no longer say no, set boundaries, discern, take care of herself and honour her needs and dreams and desires, and eventually she will begin to allow things she doesn’t want without even being conscious of it.
Unfortunately in our modern world, many women don’t know themselves truly nor do they have the support to do so, even when they want to. So many have to look after themselves, their families, their children without support, and their most basic needs of survival, home and shelter and feeling protected and stable are not met. Self knowledge is a priviledge; and we can’t focus on it when we have to take care of our physical needs, and of other people we love, and we are not supported.
Even the brand of “women’s empowerment” is no longer about true empowerment; it has become a tool and a way to separate women further from themselves and from one another. It has become women’s exploitation. It is profoundly heart breaking how women tear other women down; how horribly women can talk about one another and hurt each other, and it is so rare to find solace and true friendship between women. As women our energy is healing, and there are things only another woman can truly understand, so we should support each other, raise each other, lift each other up. Women are the foundations of our world and societies, and when we don’t take care of women, all our world will suffer.
We need to know the power we hold as women, we need to protect it, and we need to re-awaken our inner wisdom. Know yourself, and find the right people who will support you in your self discovery and self knowing, and who will provide you the needed safe loving space in which you will naturally be in your true inner essence and expand and reveal your inner beauty.
A woman’s greatest power comes from knowing her self worth; and she knows her self worth by asking the right questions. For example, the right questions begin not by asking “Am I good for him?” but by asking, “Is he good for me?” What a woman allows to persist in her life and what she says yes to, gently reflects to her how she currently feels about herself, what values she aligns to and what she beliefs she deserves.
Feminine energy is inward – it is about self reflection, purification, and attracting based on what aligns to her inner world and how she feels about herself. When she changes that inner world, she will inevitably attract and allow only that which is pure enough to walk inside her inner home and heart; and thus, she will make decisions based on greater discernment, clarity and love.
Become the egg.
Settle deep into your body and into your strong spiritual core, into deep faith and higher virtue, into trust and into knowing; knowing that there are cycles of plenty and cycles of quietness and of nothing, but still nothing is not as it should. Like rivers come to sea, what is will always be. Remain rooted in your true intention and inner essence. Know that the right one for you will approach you in its right timing, so in the meantime focus on your inner world, on nourishing yourself, on creating whatever dreams you have into reality, focus on what you love and what gives you joy.
Changing our external world will only lead to a different reflection of what is going on in our inner world, so always start from within. Whether it is a relationship you desire or a dream, keep aligned to what you truly want and need, solidify it by aligning your actions and responses to it, and don’t betray yourself nor sacrifice what truly matters to you. For example, if you are saying you desire an emotionally mature man, don’t contradict yourself with choosing immature ones, or you yourself not being mature, or staying in immature friendships as well. We need to be emotionally honest with ourselves.
And when you are approached by the various expressions of your desire, discern and choose the right one for you – and when you feel it’s your yes, open only for it, allow it and conceive, bringing spirit into matter. Beauty is yours. Embody the love.
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